The UnOrdinary Peoples ♥

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Stay With Me ♥


Hey , hello there. This is ARTHUR. I've mentioned him before in this entry HE CAN SING!!!! Well this is his second attempt on you tube. All I can say bout this video is he sounds good as a bigginer. But seriously I love this video and the song too. It brings back our memories when He sings this. By the way, my blog 'sounds' like this video above. He's the best I ever had. Regreting is a must when I've flash back all the memories with him. Lucky YOU to have him being by your side now girl. Lucky HIM too to have a nice girl like YOU. Well this will be my top fav video and song for now. Hope you'll guys enjoy it. He's talented ok! =)



STAY WITH ME BY
JESSE BARRERA

Verse 1
I think everybody knows
When they've got something right
I think everybody feels it
When they don't even try

Pre-Chorus
But I got lucky enough to find you
And so much of me to give

Chorus
I can't ever find
The words to say
You changed my life
In ways that I can't explain
How lost I was
Don't need no one
But you

Post Chorus
Can you stay, stay, stay with me

Verse 2
I think that everybody hurts
A little bit everyday
I think that everybody needs somebody
To never ever turn away
[ Lyrics from: http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/j/jesse_barrera/stay_with_me.html ]
Pre-Chorus
But I got lucky enough to find you
And so much of me to give

Chorus
I can't ever find
The words to say
You changed my life
In ways that I can't explain
How lost I was
Don't need no one
But you

Post Chorus
Can you stay, stay, stay with me

Bridge
And it's you
I never thought we'd
Find each other
You
Can you stay with me
I see life and love in technicolor
Never want to find another

Chorus
I can't ever find
The words to say
You changed my life
In ways that I can't explain
How lost I was
Don't need no one
But you

Post Chorus
Can you stay, stay, stay with me












p/s : still love you and hoping you're the best =')

Sunday, September 11, 2011

ASSINGMENT 3 :: Handling Disappoinment


5 Tips for Handling Disappointment


1. Let yourself feel let down. It's okay to feel letdown. Even if it's a small thing, allow yourself to experience whatever it is that you're feeling. Big or small, disappointments are not fun. You're allowed to be unhappy about them. But don't dwell on that unhappiness. Experience it, sit with it for a bit, and then move forward to #2. Allowing the disppointment to bring you down will do nothing positive for you, so don't let it hold you back for too long.

2. Get some perspective and see the big picture. 
No matter how hard it might seem, you have to take a step back and get some perspective. If you're facing a small disappointment, this is fairly easy. For example, I might be bummed that the power's likely to go out, but I can be grateful for all of the wonderful things I still have that don't involve electricity (love, health, etc.). When faced with a big disappointment, perspective can be tough to come by so don't be afraid to recruit loved ones to help you see the big picture. And, for added inspiration, make a list of everything going right in your life.

3. See if there's something you can change. 
As the quote above says, if you're unhappy with something, the first thing you should do is try to change it. Sometimes the initial sting of a disappointment makes us feel helpless, but on closer inspection we might find that there is, in fact, something we can do to prevent or lessen the disappointment. Give some thought to what's really at the heart of your disappointed feelings and see if you can seek satisfaction, inspiration, or motivation elsewhere. If you know there is nothing at all you can do, move on to #4.

4. Revise your thinking if change isn't an option. 
Once you've determined that there is nothing you can do to change the situation, you're best option is to change the way you see things. It's quite tempting to wallow in self-pity and despair when things are going as you'd hoped, but no good can come from doing that. If you want to handle your disappointment in a positive way, you have to change your thinking. Consider the disappointing situation carefully and find a way to re-frame it in your mind. Make a list of why this disappointment is actually a positive thing and you'll start to see the situation from a new perspective.

5. Believe in your ability to have hope. 
When facing disappointments, it's so easy to be beaten down, to believe that situations are hopeless, and to give up the belief that things will eventually work out. No matter what you do, don't let your let down bring you completely down. Keep reminding yourself to have hope and know that, despite the fresh pain of a new disappointment, you always have the ability to hope for good things coming your way in the future. Believe in yourself. Believe in hope.

No matter you're facing, no matter how hard it is, don't forget that you are not alone. Every day people face disappointments of all kinds -- from a tiny missed opportunity to a life-altering letdown -- and every day people overcome these difficulties and move forward with their lives. Initially it might seem difficult, but handling disappointments well is an essential part of living a positive life. If you want to live positively in the present moment, you must let go of life's letdowns and focus on the good things in your life. Easy? Not always. Essential? Absolutely. With any luck, the five tips above will help you to stay focused on the now and make the most of your life -- no matter what disappointments come your way.



 "If you don't like something, change it.
If you can't change it, change the way you think about it."

ASSIGMENT 2 :: Being Open Minded?


Being open-minded can be really tough sometimes. Most of us are brought up with a set of beliefs and values and, throughout our lives, tend to surround ourselves with people who share the same values and beliefs. Therefore, it can be difficult when we're faced with ideas that challenge our own and, though we may wish to be open-minded, we may struggle with the act of it from time to time. 
I'd like to say I'm a fairly open-minded person, but, like most people, I do have some pretty strong views about specific topics and find it hard to sway from those opinions -- no matter how others might try to persuade me. Of course, I fully believe that having strong beliefs can be a wonderful thing and I believe we should all stay true to what we believe in, but having strong beliefs doesn't have to mean having a closed mind. 
Though it can be tough to do sometimes, I've always found that when I open my mind, I've reaped a lot of rewarding benefits. There is much to be gained from opening the door to your mind and letting new ideas and beliefs come in. Here are just a few of the benefits I've uncovered when I've taken the time to view the world around me with an open mind... 


The 7 Benefits of Being Open-Minded

  • Letting go of control. When you open your mind, you free yourself from having to be in complete control of your thoughts. You allow yourself to experience new ideas and thoughts and you challenge the beliefs you currently have. It can be very liberating to look at the world through an open mind. 
  • Experiencing changes. Opening up your mind to new ideas allows you to the opportunity to change what you think and how you view the world. Now, this doesn't mean you necessarily will change your beliefs, but you have the option to when you think with an open mind. 
  • Making yourself vulnerable. One of the scariest (and greatest) things about seeing the world through an open mind is making yourself vulnerable. In agreeing to have an open-minded view of the world, you're admitting you don't know everything and that there are possibilities you may not have considered. This vulnerability can be both terrifying and exhilarating. 
  • Making mistakes. Making mistakes doesn't seem like it would be much of a benefit, but it truly is. When you open your mind and allow yourself to see things from others' perspectives, you allow yourself not only to recognize potential mistakes you've made, but also to make new mistakes. Doesn't sound like much fun, but it's a great thing to fall and get back up again. 
  • Strengthening yourself. Open-mindedness provides a platform on which you can build, piling one idea on top of another. With an open mind you can learn about new things and you can use the new ideas to build on the old ideas. Everything you experience can add up, strengthening who you are and what you believe in. It's very hard to build on experiences without an open mind. 
  • Gaining confidence. When you live with an open mind, you have a strong sense of self. You are not confined by your own beliefs, nor are you confined by the beliefs of others. For that reason, you are able to have and gain confidence as you learn more and more about the world around you. Open-mindedness helps you to learn and grow, strengthening your belief in yourself.  
  • Being honest. There is an honesty that comes with an open mind because being open-minded means admitting that you aren't all-knowing. It means believing that whatever truth you find might always have more to it than you realize. This understanding creates an underlying sense of honesty that permeates the character of anyone who lives with an open mind. 

For some, being open-minded is easy; it comes as effortlessly as breathing. For others, having an open mind can be more of a challenge, something that they have to work on and make an effort to obtain. Whether or not you consider yourself to be open-minded, you can certainly see from the list above that there are great benefits to viewing life with an open mind. It's not always an easy thing to do (believe me, most people struggle with this), but the effort to think openly and embrace new ideas will be worth it when you're able to take part in the benefits that come from opening your mind. 

Do you strive to be open-minded?
What additional benefits have you found from
opening your mind to new ideas?   

Monday, September 5, 2011

Arthur Sintar : I didn't forget . Never forget


Who is Arthur Sintar?? well this guy make a great..awesome..WONDERFULL creation of love in my life. And guess what?? It's his 18th birthday today. He's grown up. Growing up to be a better man for his family n his future. Hell yeah he's an awesome guy! Everybody loves and likes him! How lucky when you've got someone that's  expert in anything . What a luck when you as his parents got 100% respect from him . How lucky to have a brother who understands you a lot like him. How lucky this country to have a genius student like him . How lucky when you have an awesome friend like him and What a luck when a girl can have a sincere heart from him to the end of the holy life. 

Arthur Sintar,
How can i describe you here? How can I describe the wonderfull things you've done in my life? CONGRATULATIONS for you now turning 18 and yeah you're getting old! =P and yeah I'm sorry for the past. I'm sorry for the stupid mistakes that's mostly came from me. I'm sorry for making your tears ever fall for me. I'm sorry for putting the blame on you when I know I'm the one who's supposed to take it. I'm sorry for the awful fights and memories that I've left in that 2 years relationship. I'm sorry for forgetting your big day and I'm sorry for forcing you to remember mine always. I'm sorry for everything. But yeah sorry seems can't change anything between us now.

Hey Udung thanks for the sweet memories that you've gave me in the past 2 years. Hard to replace it. Thanks for making me strong when I've failed. Thanks for being the man in my family though just a while. Thanks for making my mum happy when she's lossing herself for making me a better person. Thanks for the letters. Thanks for making me more responsible in everything I do. Thanks for making me realize in appreciating people who appreciate me more.  Thanks for the patience. and most of all thanks for ever loving me with all you're heart. 

The laugh. The sadness. We've shared together. Never tired for each other. Never complaining for silly things. Never make my heart stop beating for you in that 2 years. 

Hey Udung, I've nothing special to give you on your big day. But I think this entry is good enough to be a birthday gift for you. Hope it's worth it.

Lastly from me, good luck in everything you do. I'll always pray for your happiness with the one you love. Be strong always in every challenge occurs. Be happy as usually you do! Take care of her. Make your parents happy n make her the light of your life.


HAPPY BIRTHDAY ARTHUR SINTAR =)







p/s :: see I've never forget it.. =)